ity in the muslim world?

Can anyone who is from the middle east deny or verify claims I keep hearing from friends returning from countries like Iraq, Dubai, Kuwait or Afghanistan that men over there constantly have with each other? You know, "Women are for babies, boys are for pleasure." Is that a real saying in that part of the world? I thought arabs stone people for stuff like that, but from the stories i keep hearing, the middle east is one big gay party. Also, if you are from Afghanistan can you explain about the "jingle wagon" which I've been told is a wagon full of orphan boys that drives around like an ice cream truck selling boy ***? I am totally serious.